Pamene mnyamata Mindie Kaplan anaona kuti iye akupita kulipira mayeso mwamsanga kwa tsiku lachiwiri (kudya kunyumba kwake), iye anadabwa pang'ono.
Kaplan adati: "Ndikufuna kudziwa ngati iyi ndi 'kugula chakudya chamadzulo chatsopano'," adatero Kaplan, yemwe amakhala ku Chelsea.Ndiwotsatsa pazama TV komanso woyambitsa podcast ndi makanema apa MaleRoom.
Awiriwo adagwirizana kuti akumane pamalo oyesera mwachangu ku Upper West Side.Pamene ankadikirira zotsatira, anapita kwapafupi kuti akamwe zakumwa.
“M’mimba mwanga muli dzenje, ‘Ndimasewera bwanji?’” anatero Kaplan, yemwe anakana kuulula msinkhu wake."Anali ngati, 'Yang'anani foni yanu.Kodi pali chotsatira?'”
Anati: "Ndinati pulogalamuyo siyikuyenda bwino ndikumuuza kuti zotsatira zanga zachedwa."Momwemo, usiku unatha.
Anthu ena aku New York achita zonse zomwe angathe kuti alumikizane, kuphatikiza kuyesa kuyesa mwachangu Tsiku la Valentine lisanafike, lomwe lingawononge ndalama zokwana $129 kutengera inshuwaransi yanu.Koma akatswiri akuchenjeza kuti mayesowo agwira ntchito ngati atachitidwa molondola.
Dara Cass, dotolo wazachipatala ku Columbia University Medical Center ku New York City, adati izi zikutanthauza kuti kuika kwaokha kuyenera kuchitidwa kaye.
Ngati mukufuna kukhala pachibwenzi kwa nthawi yoyamba pa Tsiku la Valentine, kodi pali mwayi wotani woti winayo adzipatula abwenzi onse, achibale komanso kuntchito?"Cass anatero."Izi zikutanthauza kuti mayesowa atsimikizira anthu kuti munthuyo alibe kachilombo."
A mwamsanga chisanadze chibwenzi mayeso kungakhale zambiri matenda tanthauzo kuposa osakaniza, koma daters ambiri amakhulupirira kuti iyi ndi njira yokhayo kulowa m'munda.
Jonah Feingold atayamba kuchita mantha, adapereka chimanga ndi zokhwasula-khwasula kunyumba kwake kwa nthawi yoyamba.
"Ubongo wanga unayamba kuyenda pamtundu wa kachilomboka," atero a Feingold, 30, yemwe amakhala yekha ku Greenpoint.Ndinazindikira kuti ndiyenera kukambirana ndi mayi amene anabwera kunyumba kwanga usiku womwewo kudzaonera nane kanema.
Anatcha chibwenzi chake mphunzitsi wa sukulu ya Manhattan yemwe amakhala ndi makolo ake, ndipo nthawi yomweyo adawalangiza kuti ayese mwamsanga asanakumane.
Feingold, yemwe ndi wokonza filimu komanso wochita nawo filimu ina yotchedwa Seeing Other People, anati: “Tonsefe timafuna kuyesedwa kuti tisamade nkhawa nthawi zonse komanso kuti tikhalebe limodzi.Ubale.
Ngakhale kuti palibe amene adagawana nawo machitidwe awo, Feingold adanena kuti anali ndi chidaliro chonse potumiza mameseji tsiku lonse kuti adziwe za ulendowu, kuphatikizapo kutumiza ma selfies kwa wina ndi mzake panthawi ya mayesero a pa intaneti.
Anamaliza kuwatsanulira m'mbale imodzi ya popcorn, ndipo inde, kupsopsonana kwina kunali kopanda chigoba.
Iye anati: “Ndikuganiza kuti uyenera kuganizira mmene umafunira kukhala ndi moyo wachikondi, ngakhale utachita chilichonse kuti usatetezeke.”
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Nthawi yotumiza: Feb-24-2021